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    Donor egg, donor sperm: what to know clinically, legally, and culturally

    Reviewed by HHH Clinical Team · April 20261 section · 2 min read

    Top things to know

    Donor eggs or sperm come up for many reasons; the legal, family, and cultural parts matter too.

    In the UK, donor-conceived children can access identifying donor information at 18; in India donation is anonymous.

    Where you have treatment decides which legal framework applies to your child's right to know.

    Telling children early, in age-appropriate language, is linked with better outcomes than telling them late.

    When should you consider donor egg or donor sperm?

    Donor egg or donor sperm comes up in fertility care for many reasons. Severe male factor where surgical sperm retrieval has not worked. Premature ovarian insufficiency. Genetic conditions parents do not wish to pass on. Multiple unsuccessful own-egg or own-sperm cycles. Same-sex couples and single parents by choice. The clinical decision is one part of the conversation. The legal, financial, family, and cultural parts are at least as significant.

    The grey zone

    Donor anonymity and what the child can find out later

    Standard position · UK

    In the UK since 2005, all donor-conceived children have the right at age 18 to access identifying information about their donor. Anonymous donation is no longer permitted by the HFEA. Donors agree to this when they donate.

    Where it gets more nuanced

    What we honestly do not know

    We do not have good long-term data on the psychological outcomes of children conceived under different anonymity regimes. We know that telling children early about their conception story is associated with better outcomes than telling them late or never, but we do not have great comparative data between identity-release and anonymous regimes.

    Bottom line

    Where you receive treatment determines the legal framework around your child's right to know. This is worth understanding before, not after.

    References

    1. [1] icmr-art-act-2021Government of India. The Assisted Reproductive Technology (Regulation) Act 2021.
    2. [2] hfea-uk-fertility-treatment-2024Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA): Fertility treatment 2024, preliminary trends and figures.

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    If you ever decide to raise it

    Putting it into words

    No words guarantee how an appointment goes. Precise words just make sure what you live with gets described, not rounded down.

    We are considering donor IVF. I would like to understand the legal framework around donor anonymity here, what my child will be able to find out later, and what guidance exists on telling children early.

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    References

    1. [1] icmr-art-act-2021Government of India. The Assisted Reproductive Technology (Regulation) Act 2021.
    2. [2] hfea-uk-fertility-treatment-2024Human Fertilisation and Embryology Authority (HFEA): Fertility treatment 2024, preliminary trends and figures.

    Browse the full evidence library →

    Reviewed by clinicians

    Authored and reviewed by clinicians from the founding team. Information only, not personalised medical advice.

    From the team behind Her Holistic Health, founded by Dr Divpreet Sacha, NHS-trained GP.